Sunday, July 8, 2007

Helping kids get a good night's sleep

Donors to Sleeping Children Around the World have the satisfaction of knowing 100 per cent of their donation makes its way to children, as well as seeing the specific children their money has helped.
... from the Brampton Guardian, July 6, 2007


by ALICIA SINGH, Staff Writer

Here Marne Huys poses with two of the children to whom she delivered bedkits.

When Marne Huys visited Kolkata, India, in January she knew she would never forget the faces of its children.

Huys, who lives in Brampton with her husband, and a team of five volunteers from across Ontario travelled at their own expense with the charity Sleeping Children Around the World (SCAW), to distribute bed kits to children who did not have the necessities required for a good night's rest.

Her time in Kolkata (formerly Calcutta) was filled with exciting days of distribution under an intense sun and, according to Huys, it was worth every minute.

"Every time you meet another child, you know if you didn't have a shower when you left in the morning, the first child you saw that was the end of that. You didn't think about your shower," she says.

Making children more comfortable

SCAW seeks to help make the lives of disadvantaged children in developing nations a little more comfortable by providing them with a variety of necessities needed for sleep and everyday life. Some of the contents of the bed kits differ from region to region, but those donated in Kolkata included a mattress, pillow, clothing, soap, a towel, water bottle, lunch box, school bag and toothbrush-- among many other necessities. Bed kits are purchased for $30 and, after they are delivered, donors receive a photograph of their bed kit and the child who received it.

The lack of essential belongings, such as a bed to sleep in, speaks to the issue of child poverty. According to Free The Children, more than 650 million kids live in extreme poverty in many nations throughout the world, including developed countries.

However, the founders of SCAW believed poverty in poorer nations was increasingly difficult compared to poverty in developed countries due to an absence of efficient welfare or medical systems and charitable organizations.

After witnessing the effects of poverty in a developing country first-hand, Huys agrees it cannot be compared to developed nations.

"There are just too many people and they don't have the social system that we have."

Huys decided to get involved with SCAW about 30 years ago while working with the Girl Guides of Canada, after she realized it would be a great way for the Brownies to earn their public service points.

The 65-year-old continued her work with the organization as superintendent of her church where the congregation donated bed kits for charitable events.

Following those experiences, she realized that it was not only a great and unique way to give but also a successful way to teach children about giving to others.

Made the trip herself

"Kids don't always understand giving to cancer or giving to heart but they always understand giving to a poor child. You give them the bed kit, they try on the outfits, and they sleep on the floor and find out what it's like. It is much better on the mattress," said Huys.

After helping the organization from afar for a few years, Huys decided to make a trip to donate bed kits in the flesh and, in 1997, she visited the Philippines with SCAW.

That experience, coupled with the mother and grandmother's love for children, sparked a series of future trips. Huy's visit to Kolkata in January was her third with the organization. She also visited Mumbai in 1999.

She says one of the things that attracted her to the organization was the transparency of their work.

"I think that the most important thing is that the whole $30 that is collected goes to the child."

Huys also loves that the organization is uniquely Canadian. It was founded by Murray and Margaret Dryden, parents of legendary hockey players Dave and Ken Dryden.

On a trip to India in 1970, Dryden accidentally tripped over a child who had been sleeping in the street. Since he could not alleviate world hunger alone, Dryden figured he could at least help make children happy and healthy by ensuring they had a decent bed to sleep in. That very year, the Drydens created SCAW and distributed 50 bed kits in Pune, India.

Margaret passed away in 1985 and Murray in 2004 but little has changed. Working out of the former Dryden family home, SCAW continues to fulfill Dryden's dream of putting kids to bed all over the world.

To date, SCAW has delivered 883,850 kits worldwide. It was Dryden's wish have a million kits donated by 2010 and, considering the current numbers, it's likely that goal will be met.

Huys believes the vision and action of SCAW's operators and volunteers represents goodness in the human race, "I think it shows us we have very caring and giving people and that they do care for their fellow men regardless of where it is."

Returned to India

Huys choice to go back to India this year has left her with many memories, a longing to continue to reach out and help disadvantaged kids and a few realizations about the lives that some children lead.

"You think isn't it a wonderful life that they're living and they don't realize that they don't have a bed to sleep on?" she says, "And then you come back here and you see a child, my own grandchildren, with all these toys and you think, 'there's something wrong with this world.'"

For many of the children, the day they receive their bed kits is the best day of their lives because most of them have never been given anything.

"When you hand the bed kit to them and say 'This is for you' you can just see it's total shock but it's getting to be all smiles," says Huys. Children from the poorest families are chosen by their teachers and are given ID cards they must keep until the day of distribution arrives.

It was Dryden's belief that helping school children sleep well would ensure academic and life-long success.

Amidst all of their appreciation, the kids are also amazed at the idea of donating. "They're just wondering how the money can be collected over here and how it gets all the way across the ocean and buys them that bed kit and gives it to them because they just can't understand that somebody over here cares about them."

The thought, Huys said, gives her goose bumps.

Since 1970, SCAW has helped hundreds of thousands of children, still just a fraction of those in need, however.

Following the example of one Canadian couple, people like Huys are helping tuck children across the globe into a clean and comfortable bed at night, one that they hope will foster sweet dreams and success.

For more information about SCAW go online to www.scaw.org.